Comments on: What Makes You Dislike Your Children? https://www.natellaisazada.com/what-makes-you-dislike-your-children/ How to improve organizational performance through personal growth Tue, 29 May 2018 02:39:13 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.2 By: Aydan https://www.natellaisazada.com/what-makes-you-dislike-your-children/#comment-737 Tue, 29 May 2018 02:39:13 +0000 http://www.natellaisazada.com/?p=1010#comment-737 ]]> This is an interesting outlook on raising children, but perhaps the title could be something that doesn’t include ‘disliking our children’ – just a thought. 🙂

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By: Natella Isazada https://www.natellaisazada.com/what-makes-you-dislike-your-children/#comment-734 Thu, 24 May 2018 16:01:19 +0000 http://www.natellaisazada.com/?p=1010#comment-734 In reply to Jason Johnson.

Ha-ha-ha!! That would be priceless:))

On a more serious note maybe that is what kids/teenagers need these days – an element of surprise from their parents. Otherwise, we, with our parenting methods, might be getting a bit too predictable for them :).

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By: Jason Johnson https://www.natellaisazada.com/what-makes-you-dislike-your-children/#comment-733 Thu, 24 May 2018 15:55:58 +0000 http://www.natellaisazada.com/?p=1010#comment-733 In reply to Natella Isazada.

Thank you for your feedback Natella. I would love to see the look on my daughter’s face if I opened up a Root Cause Analysis followed by a Corrective Action Report the next time she acts up. It would be priceless I’m sure. Your posts are always insightful and give your readers something interesting to think about. I’m looking forward to your next article.

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By: Natella Isazada https://www.natellaisazada.com/what-makes-you-dislike-your-children/#comment-732 Thu, 24 May 2018 03:56:56 +0000 http://www.natellaisazada.com/?p=1010#comment-732 In reply to Vanessa.

You might be right Vanessa, might not be the most popular subject to speak about these days.

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By: Natella Isazada https://www.natellaisazada.com/what-makes-you-dislike-your-children/#comment-731 Thu, 24 May 2018 03:56:28 +0000 http://www.natellaisazada.com/?p=1010#comment-731 In reply to K.Asgari.

You are most welcome, good to know you are always reading!

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By: Natella Isazada https://www.natellaisazada.com/what-makes-you-dislike-your-children/#comment-730 Thu, 24 May 2018 03:56:01 +0000 http://www.natellaisazada.com/?p=1010#comment-730 In reply to Jason Johnson.

Hi Jason, you are right, it’s more about disliking our children’s behavior at times, rather than disliking the children themselves (even though I must admit the latter makes for a catchier post title :). I like your point about looking into underlying causes behind certain behavior – which brings us to Root Cause Analysis, another tool from Quality Management. Sometimes those messages behind actions are loud and clear, some other times they are not so easy to decipher. Our children are growing up so rapidly too. I just hope we get a chance to teach all we are meant to teach them before they venture off into the big world without us being right next to them as their safety net. Thank you as always for sharing with us your valuable input.

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By: Jason Johnson https://www.natellaisazada.com/what-makes-you-dislike-your-children/#comment-728 Sat, 19 May 2018 16:10:35 +0000 http://www.natellaisazada.com/?p=1010#comment-728 I can’t say that I’ve ever disliked my teenage daughter but on occasion I have disliked her behavior. I’m definitely not perfect and I don’t expect her to be either so I consider this to be a natural aspect of our relationship and her development. I feel that as parents we play a large role in influencing the path that our children travel on. I agree with you Natella that ultimately, the decisions and choices that our children make are theirs alone but it’s important to remember that they are lacking some key life experience that helps us as adults in weighing the potential negative consequences of any decision that we make. There are going to be times when our children display behavior that goes against the values we’ve taught them. Rather than immediately looking to enforce discipline or pass judgment what if we made an attempt to understand the message behind the behavior that is being delivered? Is it possible that this behavior is learned?……not through what we’ve said to them as being right or wrong but through our very own actions that our children witness by watching how we interact with the world around us every single day?

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By: K.Asgari https://www.natellaisazada.com/what-makes-you-dislike-your-children/#comment-726 Fri, 18 May 2018 17:24:22 +0000 http://www.natellaisazada.com/?p=1010#comment-726 Great post, Natella! Thank you very much!

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By: Vanessa https://www.natellaisazada.com/what-makes-you-dislike-your-children/#comment-725 Thu, 17 May 2018 05:03:49 +0000 http://www.natellaisazada.com/?p=1010#comment-725 This is another great read from you, Natella. Maybe not the most popular topic, but so very true.

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